"All My Friends Are Already Having Séx" - Confused 13-Year-Old Girl

I ’m a girl of almost 13. A lot of my friends have boyfriends and so do I – but they seem a lot more séxually active than me already.

Some of my friends are a lot younger than me, by almost a year, and they have almost had séx already. They have gone through the whole masturbation and other people doing it for them stage, and they keep trying to make me do it.

I don’t really feel safe talking to other people about what I have done with my boyfriend. Some of things they have done, I would not even dream of doing right now. I want to tell them this but I don’t know how to approach them about it.

What should I say?